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To all the men that I’ve ever loved.

To all the men that I’ve ever loved, I want to wish you a Happy Valentine’s day. I hope that the years have treated you kindly and that during this time apart that you’ve learned empathy, compassion, kindness, and have grown to be a more honest and loyal partner. My only wish for today is…

Moving forward from D-Day

D-day. That’s the term the betrayed community uses to reference the day all hell broke loose within their marriage, the lies and deceit lay open to be picked apart, analyzed and dissected until there is nothing left but two emotionally drained souls. 1 year, 5 months, 3 days and 15 seconds or 3 years, 4…

Can a marriage truly survive the aftermath of an affair?

I’ll admit when I come across posts or tweets declaring “Survival after infidelity” I scoff at their claim and silently go along with their declaration. Smoke and mirrors that’s all it is. In my opinion, the betrayed is working overtime trying to convince not only themselves that everything is great but also to the “other…

It WILL all make sense one day

After a heartbreak many of us are told, “It will be okay.” as we nod silently, but what we really want to do is yell, “WHEN? this fucking hurts. When will this be okay?” The answer varies for each person but in my case, it took nineteen years, five months, four days and twenty five…